Ok, update on the new friend...sigh. Summer, you were right. He likes me. Yesterday, my parents encouraged me to invite him over. While we were watching a movie, he put his arm around me and told me to sit closer...WHAT?!?!!?!..... I thought we.....and you...and I.....*deflates* I'm in some deep doggy doo now. AND THEN, he tried to hold my hand!!!! but the funny thing is that he let go when my parents were in the kitchen. HAHA! Thank GOD for parents....yes folks, you heard it right here on blogspot, right from the horse's mouth. I am thankful to God for my parents. Anyway, I don't know what to do. He's a great guy, and I need a connection to somebody that lives near me, but Idon't want him to think that I am romantically interested in him. GAAAAHHHHHHH. Warnng: I don't know what I am doing! I am flying solo, into uncharted territory!
It is flattering, though to have someone interested in me. In the past, it was always the other way around. Well, that's another thing to cross off the list. *shrugs*.....hey what happened anyway?! I turn twenty one, and suddenly, I'm someone to be attracted to. What changed? I still look relatively the same. I haven't done much different from last year.... maybe my confidence level went up? IDK!!!!!!!!! Again, I'm flattered, but completely overwhelmed! Summer, you're an expert on relationships and social interaction between the sexes.......Shoot......basically my only confidant, and neither of us know squat about relationships. I'm so gonna die.
sigh...Well, hasta la vista
I'M the expert!? Since when?? I've never been in a relationship and you're looking at me? Jeez, you must be up the creek without paddle to be doing that.
ReplyDeleteOk, ok. I'm not entirely clueless, but I'm like an anthropologist observing a foreign culture. I've observed, but not experienced.
The most important part of any relationship is communication. In others words: talk to him! Ask him what's up and if it turns out he is interested romantically, then let him know you're not... and that you know a nice girl in SD that's available... Kidding, I'm kidding.
Seriously, an honest talk. That's my solution. *shrugs* Other than that, I got nothin'. Skype me when you get the chance.
-Summer K.
See?! you know these things! I just leap and then look. BTW, I was being facetious about you being an expert. I have a feeling, though, that I was right before. I don't think he likes me. Yes,I know t looks bad, but h s kinda acting like my friend J----. You know? All, way too friendly, but actually not romantically interested. He's very respectful and kind. Maybe I'm naive? Eh, foowy. What do I know....oh, yeah, that's right...NOTHING!
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